That's it. You can still create multi-select flexigrids, by supplying the:
Code:
multiselect: true
parameter when creating one.
On a side note, I think the ideal solution for Flexigrid would be to always have the mouse click unselect all other items, while giving the option to make multiple selection using control and shift keys (if multiselect is enabled, otherwise don't give that option at all). This is probably the behaviour most GUI users expect.